Dating for the shy woman
Some people are simply better at talking to people, that's their strength, but no need to become frustrated that you can't do it as well as they can.Everyone has their own unique talents and abilities, and the smart person looks for ways to even the playing field and this is your way to do just that.The opposite is true as well – just because a girl is hugging every guy at a club and twerking on the dance floor doesn’t mean that she has genuine desire and passion on the inside, as it could be all a show or a desperate attempt to attract attention that she is missing so much.So, don’t perceive the low-key demeanor, modest clothing and quiet voice as negative signs.Such a girl might just be smarter, more interesting, and more passionate in bed than many of those women who like to be in the “spotlight” or who also are known as “attention whores.” Further, shy girls are a rare kind this day and age, when girls have so much experience, being bombarded with all kinds of communication from guys on Facebook, Tinder, Ok Cupid, etc…
In defense of shy girls everywhere, this article is dedicated to them and to the men who wish to date them.
They still would like to date men, but have strong apprehensions about the whole experience.
They carry rational and/or irrational fears of men, and it affects their ability to interact with men, as they often shut down as a defense mechanism as a consequence of their fears, real or imagined.
The second group of girls who are more reluctant in the dating world are those who are shy by personality.
That is they don't have excessively paralyzing fears of men, but do have high levels of an anxiety either approaching men, or having men approach them.